Blog Post Title One
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My name is Vera Borukhov and the purpose of this group is for me to share my growth and wisdom with you. I love life and living it and I want you to love life and want to live it well too.
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Here is my first post for you and for me today:
Mel Robbins is the author of the book Let Them. It’s a powerful book that teaches us how to apply important lessons that will liberate us.
Think about how much time and energy you spend on the following:
Thinking about what others say and think of you
Proving ourselves to others
Proving that we are right and they are wrong
Trying to change others or convince others to change and do as you want them to do.
All these efforts are futile. These efforts don’t work and only drain us because we cannot control others. Whom can we control? We can only control ourselves.
The way to regain energy and time to do things you want to do and to focus on making your dreams come true is to let them, other people, be and let yourself focus on your growth.
The whole theory title of the theory is, “Let them, and let me.” This means, you let people be and you think about how you want to be and focus on how you will respond to different situations.
Let them is about letting go of controlling other people’s thoughts actions.
Let me is about thinking about what you can control. You can control yourself and your response to others.
So something went wrong, let them.
Now what will you do about it? And how will you respond? That’s let me.
Example1: A child spilled candle wax on a brand new table surface. It happened. Things spill. Let Them. Now what? I can’t control mistakes others make or wrong things others do. What will I do about it? This is the Let Me part. So what did I do about this candle wax spill? I went on ChatGPT and asked the best way to remove candle wax from a wooden surface. It suggested using plastic to scrape it off. So I took my credit card and scraped it off. And I also got a glass cover for the table.
To summarize, it’s important for us to protect our energy and time so we use it to strengthen ourselves and for making our dreams come true. So focus on things you can control and let go of things you can’t control. Let Them and Let Me. Let me is a power move. Use your power move and reclaim your power.
-Vera Borukhov
SparkBrain Learning Inc.
“Developing Great Minds, Everyday!”
